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 We love eachother but he cheats and lies Message #61
Here is my story.
Thank you for your time.
We leave together for 2 years now. I stopped working at my job as soon as we moved to live together and started to help him in his two restaurants as a manager. I wasn’t getting played  but he was paying all the bills, housing and my expenses. Six months ago we had a big fight. I told him that it’s over and went for a night to sleep at my neighbor friend. He said he loves and want only me. I needed time to think. I came back around 11 pm ( 4 hours later) to get  a charger for my phone. What did I see?  I see him and one of the waitresses sitting in a leaving a room. I asked him what’s going on, he said she is just a friend and came to help him in this stressing time.
You know what I felt. I didn’t really mean to leave him, but wanted to give us time to remember how much we loved and cared for each other at the start.
I didn’t sleep that night, for some reason I came back again can’t recall now, but it was morning. And that girl was sitting on that couch still, I went to the bedroom and found towels ; they had sex and without condoms. I wanted to die that moment, couldn’t believe my eyes.
Ten days he was calling bagging me to come back saying it was nothing, but at that moment I knew he was cheating with her for over two weeks. I came back, he didn’t send her home saying he needs a waitress and can’t find any one else .
It was more …
Please help me ! What is your opinion I madly in love with him. And he loves me madly, but sometimes it looks like he has bipolar diesis. He becomes angry drinks and disrespects me.
If I leave him now, I wouldn’t be able to afford my University, but if I stay I would need to except his cheating. Should I stay and finish school for another 2.5 years? Or leave and try to get a job with no proper education. I am 32. Thank you.


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Posted by sdyry  
Friday, December 18, 2009
08:20:36 EST
 
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 What about you # 81
You need to look down deap inside yourself, seriously ask yourself and ask family if you are a bitch or if you are difficult to get along with someitmes. If they say you're not and if you seriously don't think you are then think more about leaving. Maybe give it one more go if you can see that you were at fault as well. Be honest with yourself and don't let finances get in the way of staying true to yourself. There are bigger things in life then uni. Even if you have to live with your parents and earn not very much money that is still okay. Ask yourself this: in the last moments of your life right before you die, will you be glad you gave him one more chance and stayed with him.


Posted by jess:)  
Wednesday, January 13, 2010
06:57:50 EST
 Stay # 84
Look into the bipolar, not because i think he has it, just it could explain or give answers to you, i hope he is a real man and would agree to be looked at.
If theres no bipolar, i wouldnt recommend staying, try and find some other support for yourself at school


Posted by raiders10  
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
18:32:45 EST



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