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 about to be 9 months in 2 days... Message #60
So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 9 months and i think i might love him, but i think its just about time to end it.

He says he loves me, yet he controls me. He made me stop smoking weed which is fine because yes it is bad, and illegal. He is currently telling me to stop smoking cigarettes which ive been doing long before i met him.

He doesn't let me talk to any guys that are my friends because he gets jelous.
Just today he told me that he went onto my myspace and saw that i wanted to hang out with a girl from my old job. I havne't seen her in a while and i just wanted to catch up on old times.

And because he thinks she smokes weed, he says i dont need to talk to her. I told him that she doesn't (which is the truth) and he says it shouldn't matter because i shouldn't need to hang out with anyone but him.

He constantly tells me that my free time needs to be spent with him, and if i say i want to hang out with my girl friends for the night, he says "i don't ever want to hang out with anyone but you, so you should be the same".

I have broken up with him about 5 times because i don't like the controllingness he puts on my life but then he will cry and cry and bring me flowers and sorry cards, so i take him back.

Yesterday was his birtday he told me he only wanted one thing from me and that was for me to quit. He told me if i don't it will be the worst birthday he has ever had, so i tried.

I started gettting really mad because i needed a cigarette and he finally gave me my cigarettes back. I gave him 80 dollar cologne and 70 dollar shoes for his birthday and he still said it was the worst he has ever had cuz i didn't stop smoking.

He then told me that if i gave him oral and anal he would forgive me. I gave him oral for a few minutes then i stopped cuz oral isn't my thing. and we attempted anal but it just hurt too much, so we didn't.

So he is mad about not getting his way on his birthday. He tells me my happiness means more to him than anything and i told him i can't be happy without cigarettes but thats an exception to him.

He is now going around calling me smokey to my face, and names related to smoking cigarettes.

I just don't know what to do anymore.
Yes we do have good times together we go out to eat and movies frequently but i feel as if he has a controling problem..

someone help please


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Posted by shelby  
Saturday, December 12, 2009
19:40:55 EST
 
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Hes probably controlling because hes insecure, and unless you cant stop this insecurity i would get out


Posted by raiders10  
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
18:35:28 EST



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