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 What should I do? Message #52
My fiance and I have been together for two years, engaged for six months, he is 63 and I am 48. Upon our engagement and plan to marry this year I moved in with him. He has a confidante of 20 years at work with whom he shares all of his and my concerns (she is 63 also), and even tells her when we have arguments. When he is talking to her about business and I enter the room, he will cut short the conversation and hang up. They used to have a relationship very long ago. He has not wanted sex with me for over a year, and used to like kissing and holding me a lot but does not touch me otherwise at all. This has subsided recently, too, and I feel even more rejected. It seems that there is something going on but I don't know what. I cannot talk with him about it, he will get mad. When I asked him when we can plan the wedding, he gets mad also even though we had agreed on a wedding this year. He says that I need to let him take the lead and stop being pushy. He told family and a couple of his closest friends that he is engaged, but not everyone, especially at work.
Other than that he is generous, very reliable and caring, and dependable. Makes 2 or so nice dinner dates per week, nice vacations, etc. Helps me financially with whatever I need. But he gets angry when I even ask the slightest relationship question. I love this man, but don't know what to do anymore.


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Posted by melanie  
Saturday, June 27, 2009
05:15:38 EST
 
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