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 Love V.S lifestyle Message #50

We are 25 years old and have been together for 7 years. There was one major break up in college, it was the most difficult year for both of us. We dated others and it was fun but not the same. We came back together, he proposed to me, we moved in together. Its been a year living together in the town we went to high school with (we were on the other coast for most of our relationship) he now has been hanging out with his high school buddies, a lot. Before moving back, he stopped drinking or smoking, he never had a problem with it from the beginning but just felt to completely stop it for clarity and spiritual reasons. But since being with his high school friends he completely declined. I have become a nag, complaining to him I don't like what he is doing, so he moves further away from me. I have huge fits, he tells me to leave him alone and that he doesn't want to live like this forever but he needs to let this do its thing. I tell him to hurry up. He ask me to wait, it wont take long. He is depress. It has been bogging my lifestyle, so last week I moved out. I told him we can't talk for awhile. He told me he knows why I am complaining and that he has been a horrible boyfriend. Basically, writes to me that he will get better and that he loves me, doesn't want to break up but maybe time apart will help. I love him with all my heart, we had major plans together, we want to have children together and buy a house. But my tolerance for his behavior is so short, should I suck it up? He wants to move back out west, he knows his high school friends aren't good for him. I tell him he needs self discipline because he is bound to meeting losers like them again. What would you do? Love or Lifestyle? What is his chance of getting better? Has anyone had this experience?


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Posted by sarahabearah  
Saturday, March 07, 2009
13:40:04 EST
 
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