| Should I stay with my boyfriend? | Message #46 |
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I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. I am divorced. I have a 7 year old daughter and my boyfriend just recently packed up and moved all of his stuff and said he was done. However he has done this approximately 4 times. This time does seem different and I am tired of the instability. When we fight it is over the dumbest stuff. The problem is we cannot communicate he just blows up. For the most part he is awesome to me and then there is the part of him that is stubborn, angry, and he does have a problem with money and lies. What do you guys think. I am worried mostly about the leaving (afraid he wont always be there for me and my daughter) part since I have a 7 year old daughter....What is your advice?
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Posted by Help Tuesday, September 30, 2008 11:22:09 EST |
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Have your say! Should Help Stay In or Get Out of this relationship? |
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| Help for Help | # 77 |
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For me, the lying is a deal breaker. You deserve way better than having a man lie to you.
Other than that if things are good the rest of the time, is there any chance he'd be willing to get some counselling for his communication problems? If he could learn some way to deal with his anger rather than packing and declaring it is all over. That isn't fair for your 7 year old daughter to see this over and over. Good luck! |
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Posted by Lisa Wednesday, October 01, 2008 09:32:42 EST |
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