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 Jailbait Love him or leave him? Message #43
Ok Im 19 and my boyfriend is 18. We have been together(this time. This is our 2nd time getting back together)for about 3 months. He got locked up a month ago. Since then he has called everyday(except the weekends) twice a day. He claims that he loves me and has become a changed man. There are 2 children invovled, his and mine. I have one from a previous relationship and so does he. He is not in her life BUT promises to do so when he gets out. My question is since I REALLY love him and want to be with him Should I stay and try to work things out or let him go?


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Posted by SexyDiva19  
Monday, August 25, 2008
12:13:10 EST
 
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 I can understand your delema ... # 70
It seems that you do care for him but you have to keep in mind what is best for your child. I don't know what he did to get locked up but it doesn't sound like he's a good catch.

Either be with this guy that says he's going to be out of his old relationship when he gets out (which to be honest sounds like a load of shit, I myself am a guy and it just sounds like something a guy says to get what he wants) or actually find someone who is a good catch and will help you raise your child and be a good asset to all of you.

You are still young and will make really bad decisions in your life (all people are like that in my opinion) so why don't you start out your childs' life by making good ones for them, and do the best that you can to not be selfish when it comes to making choices with your kid (meaning don't think that your relationships won't affect your child because they will)

I myself am a parent and I can understand that feeling of what I want and what is right. You know deep down inside your heart what the right answer is, and you knew it right away. It seems that you are here because you don't realy want to face the facts of the right answer. So you need to convince your self that the right thing is something that you don't want, but you should act on it for the sake of your child.

Best of luck to you in life,

Your brother in this world of shit,
Mike


Posted by Comella  
Thursday, August 28, 2008
16:46:19 EST
 I dont know # 76
Now with his ex I know they are completely through so I dont think he would leave me for her


Posted by SexyDiva19  
Saturday, September 27, 2008
16:08:51 EST



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