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 He has to leave! Message #40
I love him dearly, and I know he loves me. We belong together. The problem? His daughter is 3 states away. His ex-girlfriend took off and left him, pretty much stranded. He has started picking up the pieces of his broken life and getting back to where he needs to be. He misses his daughter terribly, and plans on moving to where she lives. It will take him some time; he needs a certain amount of money saved up before he can just relocate, but he has every intention of getting there as quickly as he can. I cannot leave. My daughter is here (and so is her father, to whom I have vowed never to take her away from), all my family is here, and I have a nice career here. This is my home. But I love him dearly and want him to be happy, and a good father as well. I cannot ask him to stay, and neglect his daughter like that. Knowing that he will be leaving in a year or so, do I continue with this relationship, knowing it will end, or do I stay with him, and enjoy the time we have left together, and hope for the best? And if we stay together, how do we make it work, knowing there is no future in it?


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Posted by Sloth4shy  
Friday, February 08, 2008
14:48:25 EST
 
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 Life hurts sometimes # 64
You need to let him go he should be with his daughter. If you stay together you may end up changing his mind and a child will lose her father. Life hurts but as parents we choose our children over ourselves. Their happiness and guideness is a whole new life and sometimes their future is put in front of our own happiness.
Trust me I know I just ended a relationship because my son who is 9 yrs old couldn't handle me being involved with anyone. I had to walk away so that I could bring my son back mentally and emotionally ..he went into a deep depression...but this is because he also has health problems. I had to choose his future over my present.  
Good luck its never easy but the world and you will go on.


Posted by lostinluv?  
Thursday, March 06, 2008
02:13:11 EST



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