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 Confussed Message #39
Let me just start by saying my man loves me and I know he does. I care about him deeply and dont really want to lose him but I think more on a common sense level. He has 3 kids ages 18, 7, and 5 all boys. The 18 Yr old isnt a problem but he has half custody over his 7 & 5 yr old and he spoils them. Niether the mom or him wants to disicpline the kids and I have a 9 yr old son and am extremely structured and strick with him. But it pays off he does things like all kids but unlike he's boys my son knows what behavior is acceptable and what isnt and has known since he was 4 I havent had any real problems beside stages that all kids go through. Put that aside I think I could deal with the kids just by giving them structure.
My man was fixed after his youngest was born and didnt want any more kids after all he is now 40 yrs old but I am 26 yrs old and would like to have the option to have at least one more ..he thought about it and decided he would like to get a reversal and have a family with me ...but then we started talking and he tells me that he would make me stay at home for the first 5 yrs of the babys life. I am a workaholic this is something I never even considered he also says that my dreams of having land and more then 2 horses is out of reach. I say that Im not asking him to give me them because I want to work for it and get it myself this shouldnt be a big thing but he is really against me working after the baby and against what he calls being "horse broke" the different ideas and intrest seem to be to much.  Help?


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Posted by lostinluv?  
Sunday, January 27, 2008
20:45:21 EST
 
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 Forgot to mention # 63
we also have opposite personalities...He wants to talk about our feelings and is extremely sensitive and I feel like I show my feelings (if I am in a good or bad mood you know)..


Posted by lostinluv?  
Sunday, January 27, 2008
21:15:08 EST



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