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 Help me please... Message #37
I am 40 year old single mom of three boys. I have been dating a 41 year old man for about six months now. He is an alcholoic..he drinks beer from the time he wakes up untill he goes to bed. I can not tell the difference between when he drinks one beer or ten beers. He drinks at least one beer per hour. He has been seperated from his ex for a little over two years...they are still  legaly married and have not filed divorce. They have one child and he is very involved with him. He always stays calm ..never yells or anything like that. Well last week I asked him how he felt about me..he said well if you ask me to chose beer or you I will always chose beer. You are my best friend and thats what I want in my future spouse. I do care about you and you are special to me. I love you but I dont love you enough to marry you today. I do see us moving toward that direction. So what do you think? Thanks..


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Posted by dixie_gal  
Friday, October 26, 2007
23:34:20 EST
 
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 Yikes! # 59
RUN RUN RUN!
You didn't mention one positive this in that post about this relationship you are in.  
Not only you, but your children do not deserve to have this alcoholic in their lives.


Posted by Lisa  
Tuesday, November 13, 2007
18:59:50 EST
 Its Hard # 60
You have to ask yourself do you love him? Sometimes even with an addiction people just need someone to stand by them


Posted by lostinluv?  
Sunday, January 27, 2008
20:50:30 EST
 GET OUT NOW! # 66
As a child who grew up with and alcoholic as a parent it is hard to get over that. My father was an alcoholic and was just plain mean that was 13 years ago and his words still to this day haunt me and we have never had a close relationship, if a man choses alcohol over you what does that tell you about how important you are to him.  


Posted by whattodo  
Monday, March 10, 2008
21:10:03 EST



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