| how can i trust him? | Message #32 |
| my boyfriend and i fight all the time. When we first got together he looked up porn on the internet all the time and downloaded movies. I told him how it made me feel and he told me he would stop. Turns out he just moved his porn movies to another folder on his computer. I kept finding them and there was one day when i was laying on the couch and he was on the computer. I found out later that he was downloading a porn movie. If he was that horny why couldnt he come tell me?? Then when my birthday rolled around he told me that he had ordered my present but it wouldnt be here for a couple of weeks. He had borrowed 25 dollars from his mom and told me that it was to pay for my present. A couple of weeks later I was at his house and found a package from Adam And Eve with 3 porn movies in it. The worst part is that the bill was for 24.95... What he really borrowed the money for. I destroyed them that day. Just about a week ago, i found a picture of a girl that he had printed off and confronted him about it. He lied to me and told me that it was his ex girlfriend and that she had wrote him a message on myspace.com and he meant to delete her picture but printed it instead.. Turns out it was a 32 year old from the UK. HE had viewed a lot more of her pictures and they were all of her either half naked or totally naked. Then i went through the history and i counted 85 other pages of naked women that he looked at. He looked at all of these women when he was supposed to be watching our daughter. Then i find in his email that he was talking to some other married whore while i was pregnant and there was one of my friend's friend that likes my boyfriend and i found some emails between them.. I have no idea what to do. Can someone help me?? | |
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Posted by babymomma Wednesday, July 11, 2007 17:22:02 EST |
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| untrustworthy | # 54 |
| i think that the porn situation is a little different to actually talking to people that you know. i mean porn.. sure it can make u feel unwanted when your boyfriend would rather watch porn than come to ou for it, but men will be men and porn will always be appealing to them. Just the fact that he is starting to talk to actual real women that you know that is something that u need to confront him about and tell him that you are fed up and if things dont change then threaten to leave. see how he resonds to this and if he doesnt clean up his behaviur then it probly is time to go, for the sake of your daughter and yourself, you deserve to be happy. hope this has helped in some way = ) | |
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Posted by jessie88 Sunday, September 23, 2007 03:45:01 EST |
| Try to join in. | # 56 |
| How is about stop bleming him or make the problem out of it. And join in with him. It is kind of sexy to watching porn together wherever on the bed, sofa, infront of his computer. Maybe can do sexy chat too... so both of you can enjoy together and he don't need to hiding it or try to contact with another HOT chick.... | |
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Posted by jandjbkk Tuesday, October 09, 2007 03:01:39 EST |
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