| staying in a city i dislike for love | Message #27 |
| if i wasn't involved in a very satisfying year long relationship i would be making plans to leave town and start somewhere new-- how do you know when its worth staying for-- he has said that he doesn't want to influence my decision but that he would be upset if i chose to go-- he has not said we should make plans for the future together -- should i move on or stay and see what happens -- we are both in our late twenties and live separately | |
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Posted by itchyfeet Wednesday, March 07, 2007 23:56:16 EST |
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Have your say! Should itchyfeet Stay In or Get Out of this relationship? |
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| Get Out | |
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| Go Together? | # 47 |
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Any reason he can't go with you?
In my experience, as much as women like to wait for the man to say how it is going to be, men are scared to death of making that decision. If you don't bring up the idea of him moving with you, he likely never will. You don't have anything to lose. As him to move on with you and then compromise on a plan and destination you will both be happy and satisfied with. |
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Posted by Lisa Thursday, March 08, 2007 00:16:33 EST |
| going together | # 48 |
| we discussed this-- he loves it here and wont leave | |
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Posted by itchyfeet Thursday, March 08, 2007 00:40:38 EST |
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