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 Engaged and Confused Message #26
O.k. here is my situation. I have been dating my now finace for four years (engaged for three). At first, everything was o.k but then two years ago we moved in togeather. Things started changing..He gained a lot of weight, became an alcholic and didn't seem to appreciate me. He started doing whatever he wanted and everytime I got upset he would say I was crazy. The relationship took a toll on me and I started having panic attacks. Finally I had enough and I moved out and broke up with him. We ended up getting back togeather about two weeks later. He said he would change but I see him reverting back to his old behavior. My family can't stand him and my parents want me to move back in with them until I get back on my feet. He keeps pressuring me to get married and I feel overwhelmed. I love him but I don't know if I can spend the rest of my life with him. Should I break it off and start a new life?


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Posted by Need Advice  
Wednesday, March 07, 2007
22:07:29 EST
 
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 Unhealthy relationship - Off you go # 46
Break it off and start new - it's so bad you are having panic attacks?

If he is gaining weight and drinking it sounds like he isn't happy either.

Neither of you sound anywhere close to ready for marriage.

Take your parents up on their generous offer.  Move home, regroup, and then head out on a new adventure.


Posted by Lisa  
Thursday, March 08, 2007
00:13:52 EST



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