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 My husband has been cheating on me by paying a sex worker Message #23
I would hugely value your advice.  I have a baby girl who is only 14 months old and will eventually have to have a liver transplant possibly through a virus that I picked up in my pregnancy at 7 months which caused blocked bile ducts on the liver, named biliary atresia.  When our little baby girl was first diagnosed my husband was very bitter and frequently picked on me. I was left to carry the burden emotionally by myself.  I found out that last March 2006 and last September 2006 my husband paid a sex worker for sex situated near the Childrens Hospital.  I found out this as he was acting extremely weird with his phone, so I checked the voice mail and there was a phone message from the sex worker, I also checked the bill.  I then called the number he had called over and over again on the bill asking for a back massage and I was told that she did not perform back massages as she was a sex worker.  Her message bank also informed me that she charged $200 her half an hour with sex and dress up and I checked our bank statements for the suspected dates and $200 was withdrawn on both of these occassions.  My husband says that he only phoned her and did not see her but I am 100% positive that he did.  I now am back at my old work two days per week and can increase this as time goes on, as my mum looks after our daughter.  If I leave, I could move in with them temporarily and have found out that I can afford a two bedroom unit with a court yard for the baby and me until the property settlement comes through.  I do not feel anything physically for my husband since finding this out.  Please let me know if I should stay or I should go.


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Posted by Vanessa  
Monday, January 22, 2007
01:30:31 EST
 
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 move on # 32
It seems like he is an uncaring father, husband. and person in general. And worst of all you are no longer attracted to him. I mean whats left? I think if you tried to stay together for the baby's sake there is a good chance he won't change. Your better off looking for someone that will treat the both you and your baby girl the way you deserve to be treated and who makes you happy. He can still be in the baby's life but living with you every day might prove to be hard. I dunno just my opinion, im not a professional.


Posted by gearbox  
Monday, January 22, 2007
15:50:38 EST
 Defend your self # 34
The Home is you , the family is you he is just a man had an animal desire to get sex and you were really busy he was wory about the girl but also he is a stubid child .. Beat his ASS and try to give him some sextual care ... Defend your marriage and be strong .. do not let this fucking stubid story to destroy yor HOME ..YOU ARE THE FAMILY.. Thank you good mother.. God care with your sweet girl.


Posted by Sam  
Monday, January 22, 2007
17:35:50 EST
 Help # 44
Your husband definitely needs some counseling so he can learn better techniques to deal with his emotions and hardships in his life. There is no question that turning to a sex worker and treating you bad is not the best way he could be dealing with your daughter's illness. Would he be open to getting some help so you can work on growing closer together again? I'd hate to see your marriage break-up.


Posted by Lisa  
Monday, January 29, 2007
15:53:35 EST



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