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 relationship woes Message #22
I have been living with this man for 3 years now.
He is a great guy most of the time. Would do anything for anyone.  The past 2 1/2 years we have been operating a business together and our arguements have gotten worse.  We are together 24/7.  He is very high strung, when he is under a lot of stress, the least little thing I do he explodes at me,  I try not to say anything as not to escalate the problem but he just keeps going on and on about some little thing I did wrong. Then he starts calling me stupid or you retard, then I lose my temper.  We get in some bad fights.
I love him and really would like to make this work but sometimes I don't know. The other day we got into an arguement and he told me it was over so I went home and packed up my things to leave and he asked where I was going, I said I don't know but you told me it was over so what am I to do. We have been dating for about 5 year now.  He tells me I have to make his life easier.  I do everything for him,  I am his secretary, I keep the house clean,  cook all meals, clean the kitchen, do all the laundry, keep the pool clean, help with all the paperwork.  He comes home and he sits on the couch.  We do not go out or do anything other than go to work and then come home. I can not remember the last time he said lets go out for a nice dinner and just relax.
After we have dinner, if he wants a drink, I get up and get it, whatever he wants I do.


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Posted by sheilabelle  
Thursday, January 18, 2007
12:53:14 EST
 
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I think that you should tell him to hire someone else to do your job if you guys can afford it. I mean its hard to be around someone 24/7. i might help your nightlife too because after a hard days work and not seeing you all day he might wanna go out and have a nice dinner with you. Plus i think since your his secratary it puts him in a power play position that seems to spill over ofter working hours. tell him everything you feel. get a job of your own and make him do more of his own things show him that you are an intelligent independent woman that only deserves the best. and if he wont stand for it then leave him find someone that will appriciate all the things you do and allow you to be the person you really are.


Posted by gearbox  
Monday, January 22, 2007
15:59:22 EST
 "whatever he wants I do." # 36
You are realy sweet .. "whatever he wants I do!" What is about you .. Mary this lazy drunk man before he gets up. You do as a good wife .. what is the next .. Wait until another get him .. go and harry get married and make a good family.
His is a good stupid and retard drunk husband.
I wish for both of you a good life together.


Posted by Sam  
Monday, January 22, 2007
18:01:31 EST



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