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 first time relationships SUCK! help! Message #21
ive been dating this guy for almost ten months know...i have known him for more then five years..two years back i found out he had feelings for me but cudnt do anything then because of centain family issues.. eventuallyy i gathered the nerve to tell him i liked him only to find out that although he still has feelings for me but is confused because of another girl.. i swallowed my pride n told him i wanted to stay friends n nothin more..it took him a month to clear his head n we eventually went on our first date..and without explainin anything to me he cut off that girl completely...every time i asked him abt that girl, he wud give me a twisted story. Finallyy nine months into my relationship i found out that she told him she liked him while we were going out, gave him a love letter, a present and he still talks to her (according to him, coz she came crying n sobbing to him abt her life)and didnt tell me anything cause id make a big deal abt it ... this isnt the first time hez kept something for me.. i wudnt hav felt betrayed if he'd told me abt the situation himself and given me twisted stories abt her...ive tried gettin past this issue but i cant help wondering what else hez lied abt. i love him more than anything but because of his attitude (his frequent boys nites out, his "dead cell phone battery,") im getting all worked up abt this relationship..am i just paranoid or wil i be better of without him?


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Posted by dishwish  
Friday, January 12, 2007
09:59:58 EST
 
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 Step Back # 31
I'd suggest you take a step back and look at the situation. If this guy isn't any more loyal to you than another girl - why would you want to be his girlfriend? He obviously doesn't respect you enough to tell you the truth, and he doesn't respect your feelings enough to say no to this other girl.

I cut him loose and see what he does.  It is definitely time for him to make a choice.

You deserve to be with someone who wants YOU and only you.


Posted by Lisa  
Friday, January 12, 2007
20:25:13 EST
 Yor are not paranoid .. But want love .. It is sweet # 37
So get for your self another man loving you .. but try to love your self more ..
leaving him for a while is good for you ..
if he wants you he will run behinde you with power of love ..
Do not let him using you for nothing

"You deserve to be with someone who wants YOU and only you" Lisa
That is right Nothing real with that Man he just getting fun with both of you girls.


Posted by Sam  
Monday, January 22, 2007
18:18:53 EST



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