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 confused Message #20
i have been with this man for over a year now...and recently for about a few months we have been constantly fighting over the littlest things. he has a very bad temper and constantly calls me names when we are in a fight.. we can get pretty intense in our fights. he tries to manipulate situations any way he can..and try and make him seem like the victim..he doesnt always succeed at doing that but i still feel like i am not being treated fairly. he keeps claiming he will change his ways and i finally decided to break it off the other day..he keeps calling me sending flowers, and says he cant live without me...he promises he will change and do a full 360 for me..but should i really take him back? i love him so much  and besides all our fights we can be great. we are so comfortable with each other.. its just our attitudes clash..wat should i do


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Posted by bonita  
Monday, December 04, 2006
13:44:53 EST
 
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 He's not going to change. # 27
Calling names are indication of insecurity about one self and controlling behavior.  Healthy realtionship is not about calling names and putting someone down.  It's about good communication being able to talk things out.  Step one to devaluate you, calling you names and step 2 will escalate soon which is hitting you.  People who care about you and your well being mentally and physically does not do these things.  Move on girl and to support you though breakups go to womensaver.com and read about the article for (when the wrom come crawling back.)  It's very interesting.  Also check out this website www.stopgettingdumped.com by Lisa Daily and the article about break up Survival.  The best thing to do is to avoid him at all cost.  You deserve a good boy!


Posted by salina  
Thursday, December 21, 2006
16:30:52 EST



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